[meson] Only pass required dependencies to everything

Instead of passing dependencies as required we used one giant shared
dependency list containing all dependencies for every library/executable.
While this kinda works, the specified deps are also used for generating
the pkg-config files and this leads to lots of Requires.private and Libs.private
entries which aren't really needed.

This removes the "deps" array and replaces it with a few smaller ones and
makes sure the public libraries only get passed the dependencies actually
needed.

Fixes #2441
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